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Getting over a broken heart – it is easy!

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There are many times in our lives when relationships turn sour and we lose our love, most of the times it happens so suddenly that we get caught off guard easily. Although it is hard to see, but then there is light at the end of the rainbow, the people who are getting over a broken heart or those who have just been dumped will be able to enjoy newfound freedom and they’ll also get a chance to turn over a new leaf and start a brand new chapter in their lives.

When getting over a broken heart it is important to try and ignore the gnawing pain deep in our hearts and instead of brooding over what went wrong, we should try to accept the changes and not fight it. It is important to appreciate not only the highs but also the inevitable lows in a relationship. Even though we may try our best but somewhere deep in our psyche, we’ll still long the presence of the person and long for them to be back into our lives desperately!

Most of the times after getting dumped, it is usually too late to reverse the changes and request for another chance and this is the time when we should be telling ourselves to move on. The truth can be ugly but we must learn to look at it in the eye. The moment of enlightenment comes to us after we realize that we’ve lost our chance and that there is no way in which everything can get back to what it used to be, it is at this time that we should seriously start getting over a broken heart and do some major mental spring cleaning.

Different people have different methods of getting over a broken heart, while some may feel like being left alone and curled up in the bed for days on end, others find it better to go out and mingle with the world in an attempt to distract themselves from the painful situation that just took place. It does not matter which way you choose to get over a breakup, just ensure that your mind is diverted from the fact that you have an empty hole in your chest!

In order to get over a broken heart effectively give yourself plenty of healing time. During this healing period do whatever it takes to keep yourself amused and happy and learn to accept your new reality without any resentment at all! Besides someday you’re going to find ‘the one’, so it is better to not get too heartbroken over the others that aren’t meant for you.

How To Get Over Getting Dumped

Everyone has gotten dumped by someone they care about.  Then you are left with a broken heart.  How do you go on?  What will you do now that your love has left you feeling forlorn?

Here are some tips to getting over a broken heart.  At a time like this all you want to do is be alone to look over old pictures, play your song over and over while pathetically singing along, sporadically crying at different intervals, and thinking of what you could have done differently.

The first thing to do is to call some friends. Who better to lift you up than your friends.  They can take you out and cheer you up while occasionally telling you how much better you are without so and so and pointing out their various faults.  Your friends will have you laughing again in no time.

The next thing to do is get rid of everything that reminds you of your lost love. Box it up and put it away.  You cannot get over being dumped, if every time you look at your bed, you have the stuffed animal and picture of the certain someone who moved onto greener pastures.

Lose their phone number, for now. Don’t keep your ex love’s phone number with their picture next to it in your phone.  Delete it.  If at some point and time you are with a new love and your old love wants to be friends, then if you are ok with that put them back in.  Until then lose their number.

Have some “ME” time. Have some time to yourself.  But, not in your house.  Go out to the beach.  Go to dinner by yourself.  Read a good book.  Take a pottery class.  Meditate.  Just devote at least 6 hours a week to you.  Discover yourself as a single person.  When you are in a relationship sometimes you lose you.  Discover you again.

For all of you who have not been dumped yet, and don’t want to be anytime soon here are some tips to avoid having to get over a broken heart.  Listen.  Listen to what your significant other is saying.  Most relationships end with an argument of “You NEVER listen.”  So listen to your love.  They could be saying something important.

Keep the romance. Bringing home the occasional flowers or favorite chocolates is a good start.  Draw your love a bath.  Sprinkle rose pedals in it.  Whether it be a man or woman, everyone appreciates the little things.  Sometimes being romantic just includes doing the dishes.

Say I love you. These are the three most important words in the world.  Saying I love you especially when you love says it first is so critical.  If they say I love you and you say uh-huh.  That is not good.  Never throw away an I love you, it may be your last.

The same goes for kisses. We are not talking about tonsil wrestling.  We are talking about the little kisses in the store or on the way out.  If your love puckers and you don’t that is a bad deal.  They will think you don’t want to kiss them, find them attractive, ect.

The biggest thing to avoid ever is, NEVER EVER go to bed angry. If you have to see the sun come up together.  NEVER EVER go to bed angry.  You may not have the person there to say I’m sorry to in the morning.  They may leave in the night, or like one couple discovered their spouse died of a heart attack in the night.  He had no heart problems that they knew of and he was a young man.  She woke up and he was gone.  Death claimed him in the night and she never heard those words.  They went to bed angry and she has carried the guilt with her these many years.  Never remarrying awaiting the day when she can be with her beloved to say the words she has waited so many years to say.  “I’m sorry and I love you.”

Keeping the love will keep you from being dumped or having to get over getting dumped.  By doing the little things you will avoid the big things.  Treasure the love you have, and count your blessings.  People don’t do this enough.  They get caught up in this rat race we call life and forget the little things that are so important.

How was your Relationship?

Getting Over a Broken Heart | Getting Dumped

Hi Everyone!

It’s been a while I haven’t posted an article on my blog due to busyness in my business works outside! But I have found that many of those people I recommend the product about the thing in getting over a broken heart was relieved and found great results upon getting their ex back and taking off on getting dumped!

Haven’t you heard about M3 System that Michael Griswold released last 2010? He had been helping people who got dumped and

who’s desiring to get their ex back!

Okay, enough with my bumbling, I just do this quick post to give my regards to all and just wanted to say I’m going to post again articles in a few days for great tips and advice again about how to get over a broken heart and avoiding getting dumped! Yey!!! :-) .. Hoping to see you back often and wish my articles are helping you get you ex back in just matter of time. Don’t forget, the most important key is to have the DESIRE! If it’s isn’t in your thought and heart, don’t even try to get him or her in your life.

Thanks and have a great and pleasant day to all of you!

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