Your Loss Could Be a Blessing in Disguise

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If you’re upset and miserable about losing the man you love, it can be difficult to stay motivated to do anything except think about him. You might find yourself moping about wondering who he’s with or what he’s doing or why you weren’t good enough for him or any number of things.

Each time you think these things, you end up feeling even worse about losing the love of your life and you begin thinking about ways to get him to come back to you.

Many women go through this cycle after being heart-broken by the man they love. They end up doing their best to bring him back, only to find that the things they’re doing could be pushing him even further away.

The truth is, the loss of your relationship could actually turn out to be a blessing in disguise.

I’m not going to say that it’s a great opportunity to meet someone new – although it could be if you wanted it.

The point here is that you want your man back in your life again and losing him could be the blessing you needed to help put the relationship back together again on a stronger foundation this time.


Think about how he is seeing you right now. Is he seeing an unhappy, emotional girl who makes him feel guilty just to be around you? Is he seeing a girl who is begging him in desperation that she’ll do anything for him just to get him back?

These attributes aren’t going to endear you to him. In fact, he could be completely put off by this side of you.

Now think about who you were when you first started dating. You were the happy, fun girl he fell in love with, who made him feel great when he spent time with you. This is the woman he really wants and desires.

By losing a relationship with the man you love, you have a golden opportunity to re-establish equality in your relationship again, instead of being the girl who does all the work to keep it together.


You also have the opportunity to show your ex that you’re the real prize in this relationship. He should be the one chasing you for another date because he cant bear to be without you another moment longer.

The key to getting him to re-awaken that spark he felt for you when you first met is in your reach.

It’s up to you to recognize the opportunity before you and act on it so that you’ll have your man back, but this time, on a much stronger foundation that is more likely to last the distance.

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